Chennai Appeal to stop suicides by students after exam results

Chennai, May 9:

The recent deaths of two 12th-grade students from the Nilgiris and Dharmapuri in Tamil Nadu have once again highlighted the emotional stress students face after exam results. These incidents highlight the urgent need to address the immense pressure associated with academic performance and the lack of adequate emotional support systems.
Experts say that students often consider board exam results a crucial moment in their lives, leading to fear, anxiety, and, in some cases, significant decision-making. Mental health professionals say, “Failing an exam isn’t failing in life. It’s just a temporary setback,” and emphasize that marks don’t determine a student’s future or abilities.
Parents and teachers play a crucial role during this difficult time. Instead of criticizing or comparing, students need reassurance and understanding. Teachers emphasize, “Children need support, not judgment, after disappointing results,” and add that open conversations at home can help students better cope with failure and rebuild confidence.

Schools also have a responsibility to provide immediate counseling and guidance to students who fail to pass exams. Supplementary exams should be viewed as opportunities rather than obstacles. Academic counselors say, “A second chance is a path forward, not a stigma,” and urge institutions to actively follow up with affected students.

Society’s perception of marks and success also needs to change. The current system often places too much importance on academic scores, overlooking other talents and career paths. Sharing real-life examples of people who have maintained courage and overcome academic failure can help change this narrative.

Mental health experts emphasize that seeking help should be normalized. They say, “Speaking out about stress or depression is a sign of strength, not weakness,” and advocate for easily accessible counseling services and helplines for troubled students.

As Tamil Nadu grapples with such tragic events, the message is clear: exam results are just one part of life’s journey. It’s crucial for families, schools, and society to work together to ensure that no student feels that failure is the end of the journey.